Clear and direct communication is what makes both relationships and communities thrive. To that end, I want to be very clear about the standards, expectations, and culture we are creating together in Myrenthia.
These guidelines are not meant to restrict your experience. Quite the opposite. They exist so that every traveler can feel safe, respected, welcomed, and free to explore the weekend in the way that feels right to them. By attending Myrenthia, you agree to help uphold these standards and contribute to the experience we are building together.
1. No Photos. Period.
No photographs, no selfies (you could get someone in the background), no exceptions. Be present in the moment and respect the privacy of others.
2. The Second Rule of Myrenthia: Don’t Talk About Myrenthia.
Please do not post about the event on social media. Some experiences are best shared only with those who were there.
3. Never Out Anyone.
Never reveal who attended, what they did, or even that they were present without their explicit permission.
4. Embody the Fantasy.
Some travelers go deep into their characters and stories. Meet them where they are and help bring the world of Myrenthia to life.
5. Never Assume Consent.
Consent is specific and ongoing. Having consent once does not mean you have it again.
6. Normalize STD Testing.
If you plan to play, come prepared. Responsible adults should be comfortable discussing testing and sexual health.
7. Never Yuck Someone Else’s Yum.
Not everything will be your thing. Respect the interests and choices of others, even when they differ from your own.
8. Maybe Means No.
Enthusiastic and proactive consent is the minimum standard. If the answer is not clearly yes, treat it as no.
9. Your Relationship Comes First.
The connections you make with others can be wonderful, but your partner and your relationship should remain your priority.
10. Imbibe Responsibly.
Enjoy the spirits of Myrenthia in moderation. This is a weekend of connection, not intoxication.
11. Leave Politics and Religion at Home.
We gather to connect as people, not debate beliefs or ideologies. There are plenty of places for those conversations; Myrenthia is not one of them.
12. No Means No.
Nobody owes an explanation for declining an invitation, conversation, activity, or play.
13. Clothing and Personal Expression Are Optional.
Wear as much or as little as you wish. How others choose to express themselves is their choice as well. Respect both.
14. Leave People Better Than You Found Them.
Be kind, welcoming, and respectful. Help create the safe and magical community we all came to experience.